Trusting God's Timing

Have you ever had a deep desire for something, but it hasn’t clicked yet? That’s how I feel about finding my community here in Atlanta since I moved in 2022. I’ve met amazing people, and I love the city, but that real sense of belonging that only people can bring? It’s something I’m still waiting for.

But last night, I realized why God considered this season of waiting so important.

For a while, I kept asking God, why hasn’t this part of my life fallen into place yet? I've craved this in the last few years, next to creating my own family. I’ve connected with some great people, but I haven’t found that solid group where everything just fits.

Then it hit me - I realized that I’ve been entirely focused on growing my relationship with Christ over the past two years. The first year of the two was rough, the deepest depression of my life thus far…but that’s a story for another day. Fast forward to today—I’ve learned what it means to trust Him and lean into His plan instead of my own. Suppose I had a strong circle around me right now. In that case, I know myself—I’d probably get so caught up in those relationships that I wouldn’t be as locked in on what God is actually building in me.

Honestly, I can see Him moving. I finally have the work team I prayed for at work. Grad school is wrapping up, my internship is pushing me to the next level, I’m finding confidence in my therapist identity, I'm starting to get momentum on my life coaching business, I’m prepping to pick up my podcast again, and my faith-based wellness workbook is about to launch! Even my podcast voiceover work is picking up—which is crazy because I can confidently say these were never in my plans. Looking back, I had zero idea what my plan even was—I just took one step, one decision forward.

And then there’s fitness… which has been a whole shift for me. Competing was my biggest goal, my “purpose,” my idol, even though I did it for fun. I know I’ll step on stage again one day because I love the sport and the discipline it strengthens, but right now? My only focus is getting in my absolute favorite shape by my birthday in May. No competition, no outside pressure—just me, showing up for me.

So yeah, I’m still waiting to find my core people here in Atlanta. Of course, I hope to meet my husband one day. Still, I’ve realized that God is using this time to help me lay a solid foundation—establishing my career, deepening my faith, and shaping the vision for everything I’m building. That way, when I find my community, I won’t be in development and figuring out how to balance all the new at once. I’ll already have a strong base, making it easier to pour into those connections in a healthier, more intentional way. His timing is always perfect, even when it doesn’t match my expectations.

If you’re in a season of waiting—whether it’s for community, love, or career moves—know that God is already aligning things for you. Stay patient, stay faithful, and don’t let frustration make you miss the season you’re in.

If this hits home for you, comment—I’d love to hear your story.

Till next time,

Kristine